Six Months of Loving You

by Mads (OK)

Six months doesn’t do us justice. I feel like you have been my best friend my entire life. There are few people in the world that I feel more comfortable with than I do with you. I am as unfiltered as I have ever been when I am around you – this is one reason I know I have found my match.

~ Top Reasons That You Are My Match ~
Sacrifice: I honestly believe you would sacrifice a body part for me if it wasn’t a necessity – just something like a toe. Lol. You do without or a little less to give me more the majority of the time. You sacrifice whatever it takes to put me at ease or make me happy.

Good Looking: Okay, I am vein. Of course I want a good piece of meat to look at. 🙂 You are that and so much more. I continuously find myself staring at you in awe of how attractive of a specimen you are. I love showing you off.

Thoughtful: Everything you do has thought behind it. You have given me some of the best gifts in my life so far because of your thoughtfulness. You’ve also created some of my best memories as a result of your thoughtfulness.

Discipline: I know that when you say you are going to do something, you mean it. I will never have to worry about you taking care of business. I take this for granted but at the end of the day – it is something I haven’t been surrounded by too much in my life. Thank you for always following thru.

Family: The way you love your family inspires me. I know that one day you will be the best dad out there! I definitely envision it.

Willingness: Willingness to help and willingness to be better. You help me no matter what, even if you don’t want to. Also, your willingness to listen to me and try and give me what I need. We have discussed at length the things I need, I know that you are already or will be able to give me everything I need.

As you read these I hope you have a snapshot on how highly I think of you. Be confident in your strengths and don’t diminish them or yourself – EVER.

~ Our Story ~
Our story has been a lot of things but the word that stands out to me is exhilarating.

It has been an unforgettable ride spending the last several months with you. I am direct but I’ve always had this internal drive encouraging me to be more direct with you. I felt good about who you were from the day I started talking with you. We moved at the speed of sound but that speed was more than okay with me.

I always heard that when you find the one—all stars start aligning and that the length of time doesn’t really matter. This summer not only did I fall in love with you, but I started to fall in love with myself.

It is still a daily struggle, figuring out who I am. But I know that God put you in my life at this very time for a reason. I know our story hasn’t been perfect, but it is ours. I wouldn’t trade our story for anything, through it all I have learned that you are my biggest support system. Our story isn’t even close to being over…

~ You Have Changed Me ~
For the better, of course! But as I reflect, there is no doubt that you have changed me. You change me/help me grow/be better daily. I have learned to love differently. Become more thoughtful. Learned to become more aware of how I treat the people I love. Created healthier habits related to cleaning, food, and working out. Create a work life balance. These a just a few of the things you have helped me grow in.

~ Time Will Only Tell ~
Time will only tell what great things are in store for this. But, this I know… you are my best friend. I always thought people were crazy when they referred to their boyfriends as their best friends. I told myself, “I couldn’t imagine loving and liking some one enough for them to really be my best friend.”

Well, I was so so so wrong. You really are my best friend!

I want to spend majority of my time with you. Every thing that happens, I want you to know about. I trust you to be the keeper of my secrets. I go to you for advice and counsel, I do that because I respect your opinion and know that you have my best interest at heart.

I can laugh at myself and you! I love experiencing new things with you. Most of all, I know you have my back. I am not going to predict our future, but I feel confident saying—I know that we will take it head on together with our hands locked.

~ I Feel Loved When ~

  1. You do small acts of kindness for me and Dean.
  2. You kiss me on the forehead.
  3. You make me dinner.
  4. When you cuddle me.
  5. When you organically smile just from looking at me.
  6. All of your awesome gifts.
  7. You go out of your way to see me.
  8. You post about me on social media.

~ I Promise ~

I promise that I am in this for the long haul. I promise to always try my hardest to do right by you. I promise that I love you with every inch of my heart and entire soul.

Happy Anniversary babe. I look forward to many more.

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